In a culture like Turkey’s, decluttering goes far beyond its literal meaning; it is a deeply transformative journey challenging long-held traditions and values.
Growing up in Turkey, I was surrounded by the comforting, warming weight of heritage. Rugs have showcased exceptional Anatolian craftsmanship, copper trays have gleamed with the warmth of family gatherings, and drawers have overflowed with items deemed too sentimental to let go. Here, an embroidered tablecloth isn’t just fabric; it’s a legacy passed down from mother to daughter.
In a society where the past is highly cherished, keeping things is not merely a habit but a deeply rooted tradition. It’s as if our belongings are extensions of our memories—living relics of a shared history, carrying meanings beyond their immediate utility. Adopting letting go does not come naturally. Decluttering often seems even more daunting as there’s something else weighing heavily: the scarcity mindset.
I have been reflecting on decluttering in such a context. Is it harder because of the cultural inheritance, or does it boil down to the individual’s inner mindset? I felt like swimming against the tide when I embarked on my decluttering journey. Objections like “you’ll need it one day”, “it cost quite a lot”, “don’t be wasteful” were flying around, mirroring a public sentiment that echoes across the nation.
As I step into my 40s, I have been lucky enough to be able to part with many of these without feeling the pain of severing ties with the past. Unlike many, letting go does not feel like losing a part of myself. I rather deeply feel the relief.
While it’s undeniable that cultural norms may shape our initial outlook, they do not define us. Decluttering is deeply personal, driven by what’s in one’s mind and heart. It’s best to untangle ourselves from cultural pressures and craft our unique journey.
I truly believe this lifelong adventure is the greatest self-investment. Declutter steadily, and your well-being - physical, emotional, mental, and digital - will improve holistically.
Brew a pot of tea and grab your beloved cup. Get ready to part with that heirloom china tea set sitting pretty on display like others as if waiting for an occasion that never comes. Transform the guilt of keeping it into gratitude for being able to hold your favorite cup while in good health. Add a dash of cherished memories of your loved ones who originally owned the set.